What makes a community? Yet another part...
"Something Stinks in Texas by Jade_nyc" For any looking to tune
in and catch their weekly burst of Ironbear's irreverant humor,
sorry folks... not this time. This isn't a funny subject. It does
have it's bright spots though... but you have to kind of hunt for
them amidst the gloom. Bright spots are like that sometimes. Take a
few minutes and right click on the link at the top here, and open
it in a new window so that you can read the thread and come back.
But do come back... While your reading, you're going to see some
things that are a bit depressing - a story of a man, a member, and
a truly excellent artist and wonderful human being whose stuck in
some of the truly lousiest circumstances I've seen in a long time.
Physically disabled, unable to get declared disabled in Texas so
that he can get aid, generally unable to work or do a lot of the
things that most of us take for granted. The really scary thing is
how many of us there are that are one serious illness or a few
missed paychecks away from the same situation. And No... this is
not a plea for support or donations. There are people who are
busily taking care of that as we type and read here. They're doing
a pretty decent job of it too. That's what the link is for, if you
want to do something on that... let one of them know. This is more
a focus on the way tragedy can pull together and bring out the best
in us. For the second time in several months, I've seen one of our
members hit bottom in a big way. And for the second time - I've
seen us band together to do something about it, putting aside all
of the petty bickerings and usual BS that we tend to get into in
these forums. That's kind of neat, eh? While we're at this... I
want to recognise a couple of our members. Jade_nyc, who has taken
it upon herself to pull the effort together this time and make
things happen. And Wynter... who last time around shouldered almost
the full burden of organizing and getting the rescue together. And
one more who has stated that they'd like to remain unnamed...
someone who volunteered to pay the bills on this one out of their
own pocket, and who came home after taking care of that to find an
eviction notice in their own mailbox. And who still went ahead and
kept their word on the donation they'd commited to inspite of their
personal tragedy. Kudos. That's above and beyond the call in all
three cases. Kudos also to everyone, regardless of what site, who
are responding with the single simple phrase: "How can we help?" I
say ours, even though a lot of the people involved in this belong
to both sites. Does it matter? They're ours to me. On something
like this - it doesn't matter what website we belong to: community
is something that cuts across the boundaries and petty rivalries
and competitions. It's the simple act of looking at one of our own
in need, and the first thing that comes out is "What can I do to
help?" that makes us a community. A community takes care of each
other... This is an extreme example, but it's the same thing we do
for each other on a daily basis everytime we give of our time to
another member. The only difference is the scale. And the scale of
the need. I'm going to leave this with one last question that I've
been looking at for a while here. Is there something that we can do
to set up a way that we don't have to make a mad emergency scramble
everytime something like this happens? The last minute efforts are
heroic, but a little less last minute could be nice. Maybe we could
design a community fund or something like the old community support
items we had, something that could be drawn upon in time of need to
pick up the slack. It's a thought, anyway... Later... Sherman
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