who is not good for you but who you just can't resist. In my 20s, I was often out with a clique that included a young woman. I was madly in love with her from the first moment. Unfortunately, she was married and therefore taboo for me. Years later, however, she came to me to ask a favor. She was divorced in the meantime and of course I made an effort for her. We were more or less in a relationship for over 20 years but she kept telling me that we better just be friends because she hurts all the men she is in a committed relationship with. I was totally addicted to her and so of course she also hurt me. Because of her alcohol problem she unfortunately died much too early. I will never forget her!