The "C" word, for Cheri ( elfin14doaks) by elfin12u
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The “C” word
Today we learned we have a new opponent to face in our lives, as if we needed yet another. Apparently a couple can never have too much to battle through at one time. Life has gotten so that it seems at times we are besieged from all sides, the only plus I can see to this is that we no longer have to aim, or pick out a target. My baby went to the doctor today; she’d been complaining that she was incredibly sore and tender up top. As I have not seen two of my most favorite friends the last few days, I was pretty certain that this was not because of something I had done. Not that I am ever rough with them, they are so cute and soft. I think sometimes that if I were their owner, I would probably miss a lot of work, opting instead to stay home and treasure and touch them a lot. My friends are feeling a bit under the weather right now, even more so having been placed in that device all women I know to loathe and despise. I think the technicians think these adorable darlings are made of play dough, or some similar substance, and proceed to squish and mold them into some other form, bearing no resemblance to the way they looked prior. They look so sad now, and I want to hold them and tell them that everything will be ok, but they don’t want to be held or even touched right now,…and I can’t say that I blame them, they’ve been through so much!
Cheri has breast cancer, although we do not know yet which kind, I didn’t know there were different kinds! I was under the impression this was something you either had, or did not. It’s apparent that there are different kinds and types,…much like apples! Some are better for pies than others, some are crisp and red, others green, and some are yellow. The problem is that apples are good for you,…” an apple a day”, cancer is not, not ever! The dreaded “C” word that no one ever wants to hear, we shudder at the spoken word, dredging up worse fears that that thing we swore was under the bed when we were children, causing countless sleepless nights. This monster though is real, and will probably cause more than just a few sleepless nights itself.
We will most likely have to wait about a week to finally find out what kind, and then take it from there. The doctors think that this was caught early, and so that’s a good thing! Personally being told I had a monster living in my body, be it big or small, is still a monster living in my body! I would want it out, and want it out right now,….like THIS VERY SECOND! So we will have to patiently wait, how does one really do that? I’m already chomping at the bit, ready to kick its ass! I’ll probably have to ignore my friends for awhile too. This is going to be especially hard, as they coo to me every night, calling to me, whispering their desire. The fact that anything should torment or threaten them really ticks me off, and the impact on their owner is really hard to take. So we have another war to wage, I wish I could fight this fight for Cheri. I’m stubborn never back down from a challenge, and always get back up and to business if ever knocked down. This time, I just get to watch, be there and offer encouragement…….I want to fight! If you actually read this far, well then I thank you for that, but we could, Cheri could really use your help and support! I hate asking for help, but it’s not for me, it’s for her. She is such a sweet and caring person, and loves you all so very much. All I’m asking is that for maybe just awhile,…you love her back, keep her in your thoughts and prayers, and wish for her to have the strength to fight, and never stop. To be a big brave dog! Thank you in advance for all considerations.
Comments (20)
elfin14doaks
I may not act the part all the time, but I am a big brave dog! I can do this watch me. I'll beat this angel I won't let you down.
Challenger09
Without a doubt the Community of Renderosity as well as the community at large sends its love and support to you both!
clbsmiley
Dave you write with your heart. And Cheri is a big part of your heart! Hopefully your "friends" will feel better soon. All will be well, have faith. Get some sleep, worrying can not help. Play some nice music. I will talk to you tomorrow. Nice picture of Cheri too. Your friend Cheryl
mickeyrony
Nothing in our lives has sence of the times my friend. Atrocities fall to us their distresses without embarrassments like my friend. I am with you. All everywhere have hears this word C And which inversions, sadnesses and désarois. You know my mother died of a cancer of the pancreas and she said to me. You know Michel I would thus have spend the good moments of the every day that those of my other life which destroys me with small fire. Keep in your heart the joys of a smile Because it is Divin for the attacked people of this plague. ((5++)) Rien dans nos vies a du sence des fois mon ami . Les atrocitées nous incombes de leurs détresses sans gênes comme mon ami . Je suis avec toi . Tout partout ont entend ce mot C Et quels renversements, tristesses et désarois . Tu sais ma mère est morte d'un cacer du pancréas et elle me disait . Tu sais Michel j'aurais donc du vivre les bons moments de tout les jours que ceux de mon autre vie qui me détruit à petit feu . Gardez dans votre coeur les joies d'un sourire Car il est Divin pour les personnes attaquées de ce fléau . ((5++))
HADCANCER
I will say a prayer for her. As one who was told I had cancer and had less that a year to live 5 plus years ago. It can be beaten back. I read that Breast cancer has one of the best survial rates, so keep the faith Rick
beachzz
Know you both will be in my prayers--and tell Cheri I'll add lots more to help her thru this.
auntietk
You know I'm here for you both, my dear. You can scam my contact info off Cheri's computer, and give me a yell if you need me!
Butchpfd
Elfin, my wife and I send you our special wishes and prayers. My Cindy is an 11 year Breast Cancer survivor. It can be beaten. You must stand together on fighting this. She will need to be aggressive both in treatment and in spirit it will be a tough struggle. It took my Cindy 2 1/2 years to beat it. You will have to be strong for her and put what her needs are first. It can be done. In this world of stress you have been dropped into, remember love and prayer will always be needed. If you ever need any advice just contact us through this site. God Bless and Protect Butch and Cindy
wysiwig
It just never f**king ends does it! Men aren't supposed to cry, are they? Just hold her very close and give her all the support you can and know that everyone who reads this is pulling for Cheri.
Autumn_Rains
What an excellent way to tell such sad news, I'm glad that you have both kept your wits and humour, it will stead you well.......... But Cheri, your not just going to beat this... Your going to wipe the floor with it!!!!!!!!!!! You are BOTH in my prayers. xx Hayley
micajo49203
I'm so sorry to hear about this. I'm an eleven year cancer survivor. Dave...the worst part is the waiting. Once the treatment plan is in place...the kicking a$$ will ensue. I am here for you both.
jendellas
I have only known you both for such a short time BUT I feel we are all part of this lovely community. I will certainly send my positive thought & prayers to Cheri & you Dave to help her through the weeks ahead. We are all here, whatever you want to share. Love to you both, Barbara. xxxxxxxx
Rainastorm
The one and only thing that will get you through this is sticking together. It brings tears to my eyes to read this...saying sorry to you both is not what you want/need to hear...you want to hear everything will be OK. I can't tell you, no one can, that. We can tell you were all here to support you along the way...be it a long journey or short. And Dave, as for your question how you patiently wait...you just do...when my son first went into the hospital that first night they told me not to expect him to be alive by morning....waiting was never longer in my life....but I stood there by his side holding his hand talking to him...waiting. We almost lost him four times that first week, it was hell. Allot of waiting...Its not easy, its not fun...but the best thing I can suggest is to talk...talk with family, talk with friends, especially talk to each other. It will make things easier to bare. You folks are in my thoughts and prayers...
2121
Dave, my thoughts are with you, thanks for being so brave and sharing. that is part of the battle.
ShadowsNTime
Please know that I am here also for support should you need me. Wonderfully written Dave, hugs to you both! (from Tanner too)
chasfh
My thoughts are with you both. As you say, some of us just never seem to have enough to face at any one time, but face it we do, and we go on. I return the advice you gave me. You can't win if you give up. I know you won't give up, I know you're both strong enough, individually as well as together, and you have all the love and support of your friends and family too. I will be thinking of you both, I wish I could do more than that, I really do. If all I can do is offer support as a friend, then you have it by the ton! I'm right there for you, every step of the way...
myrrhluz
The C word has laid its foul, hated hand on someone very dear to me as well. You are both in my thoughts. I wish you strength and good fortune in your struggle.
Chipka
Even during my long periods of silence, I'm here for you both! My aunt survived breast cancer for years only to succumb to one of its vigorous cousins, and so I am familiar with the horrors that even thinking the dreaded "C" word can inspire, but on the flipside of that, nothing is invincible and I have yet another friend to thank for showing me that...she's gone into remission and has decided to do all of the things that she never got around to doing...thankfully she hasn't decided to take up skydiving yet...but knowing her, she'll probably get around to it. The point is, though, everyone touches everyone else's lives and it's good to know that there is a community of people here who do more than post pretty pictures and such, and I'm proud to be a part of that, even when I don't have internet access. You have a friend here--and a few others, I'm sure...and heck, you even have a few crazy friends in Russia and the Czech Republic! And hopefully, if there's anything we can say or do, let us know!
bmac62
Bum situation but a great and very thoughtful description Dave. I'm one of those folks who believes in the power of prayer. Cheri goes to the top of the list! Bill:)
Buffalo1
I'll throw some prayers and good vibes Cheri's way, Dave. Breast cancer is very beatable. I know she will make it! The ex works with cancer patients as one of those mammo techs. They have to "squeeze 'em tight, to get it right" and they really dislike hurting patients. I am aware that is cold comfort when Cheri is in the machine. Lots of new technology coming up that should remedy the discomfort, though. I love the Chicago pics and stories!