Indeed been awhile bother, shocked by the news and the most tragic events, you and your household/ family.. wife to be have my sincere condolences, anything i can do all you need to do is ask..... 40 hard years is to too easy for a repeat offender that tried to flee the scene of the crime ,U.S... should extend there law to cover this... to take a life in this way you forfeit your own, more so when you have done this repeatedly, can't express my feelings and thoughts by simple words, obviously... congratulations are due on your engagement and wedding...and i wish you both many years of happiness....