Thanks rhol, Lunaseas and Bakapo and everyone else in this thread it can't be said enough that ya'll are the best. I've always considered my self a Chaos Magnet but this last couple weeks wasn't about me. well maybe a little me, it was about Lou. It tore me up seeing her so distraught over her moms death and how she dealt with her grief and how she snapped back and took charge of everything for Diane's Funeral with her with some help of her Sis. It just re-enforced my admiration of how Strong and  Determined a woman she is I realized how lucky I've been with her in my life. Now I got to get ready for Brunch with my kids, the real ones not our furry ones, this ought to be a Riot they're gonna dig on me for all the we don't need a piece of paper, she's happy with the way things are, after yawls' mom I swore to never get married again, yeah they're going to beat me up and that's allowed because Lou will be there right by my side and on my side.

Remember...No matter where you go there you are