@Y-Phil

Thank you. Very sad indeed. She is such a lovely woman, but since my husbands father die 20 years ago unexepted and tragic, she just looked her self up. 

Her decline sadly was predictable and nothing could take her out of her pain. 

For me it was clear that I will take care of her. No way she goes in the EPHAD. 

But we will not stay in Paris, we sell the house there and move out in the campagne . But one step at the time.  And she is excited to have her fav DIL 24/7. 

She has just  this one LOL...She has still her humor which is good. 

La vie est éternelle. L'amour est immortel.

“Dwell on the beauty of life. Watch the stars, and see yourself running with them.”
― Marcus Aurelius,