I tried the Sensibility Dress and noted that before I checked the When Conforming areas under Properties, the sleeves did hover above the arms as you mentioned Gishzida. When I checked the boxes under When Conforming the sleeves popped into place.

There is a area just below the hip area where I think the dress may have torn..there is a couple small holes in the dress...

I put a different texture on the dress..of course that wouldn't fix it but thought it might now show as bad as the blue texture did.