I have to disagree on the IM thing. If someone sends me some nasty IM about something, I'm not about to keep their dirty little secret and let them put on a different face in public. If you're harrassing someone, everyone deserves to know. And this DOES most definitely constitute harrassment. In fact, the grey-matter situation may even leave her open to criminal charges. Certainly, if she harrassed someone over the phone or through the mail in this manner, she could be charged. I think Stefy needs to pull her head out of her ass and apologize to these two folks before things escalate any farther, and before she puts herself out of business here at Renderosity, because right now I think she's lost herself a whole pile of customers.