Making the whole scene inverted and running the collitions with the figure inverted might also help with the grass returning to their normal vertical position after the figure went through it.

Long Gras is vertical.
Figures walks through and grass gets "collisioned out of the way".
Long grass returns to vertical after the figure went by.

Still do not exactly know what you want.

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