Okay, I'm sorry, Shiela. I posted that right when you posted your message I think. I realized that you really wanted bw after I posted my color. So here is a bw I like because it keeps most of the details, but it also softens their faces. I cheated and used a plugin. It's the optikVerve plugin and it's free to download. I don't know if it will work with your program though. Anyway, I just wanted to redeem myself by contributing something that you were actually looking for. I couldn't help it. :) Good luck and try not to pull out too much hair. :)

~Damia~ LeviathanPhotography